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Marriage Counseling & Strengthening Your Relationship

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I Have Good News For You.
With God's Help Your Marriage Can Be Restored!

My Name is Joseph Bordelon and I'm Here to Help.

An initial session with a Round Rock marriage counselor will help me find out what each individual is doing, or not doing, that is causing harm to the relationship. We then create a plan to facilitate the hard work of addressing unresolved issues. I look for reoccurring behavior patterns that have created past wounds or continue to cause harm.  In my experience, once we uncover these issues we can begin the healing process which will lead to more intimacy, trust and respect between partners.

COMMON RELATIONSHIP ISSUES

You probably wish your marriage was not so difficult. You might want to learn to communicate without fighting. You may like to rekindle the romance and love you used to have or just have your spouse be more of a support to you.

I have got some good news for you. There is help! Round Rock couples counseling is effective for couples at any stage of their relationship whether they are married or not. As a state Licensed Professional Counselor, I specialize in working with couples in crisis and considering divorce. These are couples who are argue more than normal, couples who are at a point where they don't know what to do, couples who have slowly drifted apart and don't feel connected to their partner. I will help you survive and have stability at home. As we work through difficult issues, you will become more at peace and find healing. I will also help you build your relationship. With God's help, not only will you survive, but you will thrive!

DIVORCE

When one spouse wants a divorce and the other one does not is probably one of the most challenging situations in a relationship. Careful steps must be taken to preserve whatever stability is present. I help the individuals consider their specific reasons for what they want and how the other person feels.

INFIDELITY

Infidelity is probably one of the most difficult issues to deal with in a relationship. No one thinks it will happen to them. I do not take sides or point fingers. The truth is that both people may have some degree of responsibility. I will help with knowing what the next steps you need to take as a couple and how to rebuild trust.

SEX & INTIMACY

Sex is one of the most important things in a relationship. It can be exciting, complicated, and frustrating. It can be quite difficult when two people value sex differently. I will help you learn to talk openly about your sexual desires and preferences to create more intimacy within sex.

BLENDED FAMILIES

Here are some of the common issues that I can help you work through: One parent may have no experience, changes in family relationships to make room for the blended family, there can be difficulty in children accepting a new parent, there may be changes in family traditions and the starting of new traditions.

COMMUNICATION

Effective communication is so important for all relationships.  It can be very challenging to communicate feelings, resolve conflicts and share with each other.   It is very important to learn the skills it takes to communicate so you can have the marriage that you have always wanted. As your Round Rock relationship counselor I will help you establish a better dialogue with your partner and learn how to share your feelings and address issues with less conflict. through this, it is possible to create a relationship that is healthier, more resilient, and more emotionally fulfilling. I will help you learn the tools it takes to communicate effectively with Active Listening, Sharing emotions without judgement and by Using positive language.

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TESTIMONIALS

There is None Better Than Joseph Bordelon

“As a Pastor, I spend an enormous amount of time focused on others. I love what I do, but understand that the best gift I can give to others is a “healthy me.” I believe every pastor and leader needs a counselor. There is none better than Joseph Bordelon. He has taken my family, church and me to a whole new level.”

Trey Rose
Pastor - The Exchange Church
Austin, TX

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Trey Rose
Pastor - The Exchange Church
Austin, TX

“As a Pastor, I spend an enormous amount of time focused on others. I love what I do, but understand that the best gift I can give to others is a “healthy me.” I believe every pastor and leader needs a counselor. There is none better than Joseph Bordelon. He has taken my family, church and me to a whole new level.”

Helpful Perspective

“Joseph was a great listener and offered helpful perspective. He was essential in bridging the communication gap between my wife and I. We are very happy with our experience and have taken what he taught us into our happy productive life together. Thanks Joseph.”

Anonymous
- Austin TX

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Anonymous
- Austin TX

“Joseph was a great listener and offered helpful perspective. He was essential in bridging the communication gap between my wife and I. We are very happy with our experience and have taken what he taught us into our happy productive life together. Thanks Joseph.”

He Understands the Male and Female Point of View

“We have been extremely pleased with Joseph. He is the first counselor (FINALLY) that has been able to help us with our marriage. He understands the male and female point of view which tends to be VERY hard to find in a counselor. We started with him 6 months ago and our marriage is better than it has ever been. I would 100% recommend Joseph to anyone. He is fantastic!”

Cameron Lowe
- Austin TX

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Cameron Lowe
- Austin TX

“We have been extremely pleased with Joseph. He is the first counselor (FINALLY) that has been able to help us with our marriage. He understands the male and female point of view which tends to be VERY hard to find in a counselor. We started with him 6 months ago and our marriage is better than it has ever been. I would 100% recommend Joseph to anyone. He is fantastic!”
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COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT AUSTIN MARRIAGE COUNSELING

HOW MUCH DOES IT COST?

A 50 minute individual session is $125.
A 75 minute couples session is $185.

If you are not able to afford this, please still call.  It is important to me that anyone who needs counseling, gets the help that they can afford.

DO YOU ACCEPT INSURANCE?

Yes, I accept Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO and Cigna at this time. To verify benefits I will need your Name, Date of Birth & Member ID.

DOES COUNSELING ACTUALLY WORK?

If an individual is truly open and ready to address their own issues, therapy is highly beneficial. However if an individual is not open, then therapy can actually create a negative experience for them.

IS THERAPY CONFIDENTIAL?

Yes. Information is not disclosed without written permission. However, there are a few exceptions to this rule. Exceptions include: Suspected child abuse or dependent adult or elder abuse.

WILL COUNSELING MAKE THINGS WORSE?

No. Nothing is changing we are simply just discussing the issues that the couple has not been able to on their own. However if both people do not agree with any suggested change it can cause a conflict that needs to be resolved. Any suggested change is for the betterment of the relationship.

WHEN CAN I EXPECT RESULTS?

If an individual is open and ready to address their own issues, you can expect to feel results within the first session. Once you start following through with what is discussed within the session, you will begin to feel even better about your situation. This is then built upon and repeated in follow up sessions.

DO YOU TAKE SIDES?

No. As an impartial couples counselor, I do not side with the man or the woman. I side with the Truth. At times, depending on the issue being discuss, it may feel like I am focusing more on the man or the woman depending on who has more culpability surrounding that issue.

WHAT IS CHRISTIAN COUNSELING?

Christian Counseling uses the science of psychology within the context of our Christian faith to address issues.  It is my belief that we cannot achieve true healing without Jesus Christ.  He is the true counselor.  I integrate best practices in the field of counseling with our faith in Jesus Christ to bring about healing.  Each client is different in regards to what degree they are comfortable incorporating their faith into the counseling process.  We discuss this upfront and find out what is right for you!  

One of the hardest things about counseling is taking that first step by trying to find the right relationship counselor to help guide you. We may not know each other yet but it is my hope that as you read through this site you will become more comfortable with me and my process. Please let me know if you have any questions.

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Joseph Bordelon
Licensed Professional Counselor in Austin

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Faith-Based Couples Counseling in Round Rock, TX

For residents of Round Rock, TX, who feel like you need marriage counseling, the time has come for you to be proactive and take life-affirming steps to save your relationship.

You may have felt at a certain point that there was no need for relationship counseling for you. You assumed that you and your spouse or partner would be able to talk through your differences yourselves and that there was no need to involve an intermediary. Asking for marriage help is not a sign of weakness, though, but rather one of strength. It demonstrates that you’re ready to tackle any problems you’re having from a fresh perspective to rekindle the spark you previously had.

Relationship problems can develop in any partnership, especially one that has existed for many years and has been through many ups and downs. Sometimes resentment can develop because of past or current actions, or maybe what is happening is a simple lack of communication. In any event, marital problems can be dealt with before they turn into calamities. When you take the time to talk about your difficulties together in a loving, nurturing environment, you’ll be astonished by how much better you’ll start to feel.

What’s important to remember is that marriage guidance is a way to reaffirm your bond to one another. If you can’t seem to have a civilized conversation anymore without resorting to put-downs or recriminations, then it’s not going to be helpful for either of you or the rest of the family.

Relationship therapy at Christian Counseling Austin gives you a safe place to unburden yourself. Let Joseph Bordelon offer you new methods of easing frayed emotions so that both of you come away freshly appreciative of what the other is thinking and feeling.

No issue, no matter how seemingly insurmountable, cannot be overcome. If the two of you have formed a blended family, then those issues can be discussed. Marital infidelity, painful as it might have been, can be dealt with as well. Sex and intimacy issues, while potentially awkward, should never be embarrassing, and Joseph can help you to talk about them in a judgment-free fashion so that you can come away from the session feeling immeasurably relieved. Problems with relatives, coping with the death of a loved one, stress caused by work or the world at large: any of these issues can be worked through with the best marriage counseling in Round Rock.

The first step toward resolving your problem is often going to be apathy. It is when partners stop communicating that the system breaks down and the integrity of the family unit is threatened.

You must be brave to admit you need help, but the very act of calling and arranging that first appointment is going to make you feel better. When you can sit down with an experienced counselor, talk through your problems and get some faith-based solutions, you can get your marriage back on track. Don’t hesitate to reach out. The longer you let your problems fester, the worse they will become.

Location & Hours

Christian Counseling Austin
1000 Westbank Drive

West Lake Hills, TX 78746
512-200-3880

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